I hate when people judge you based on who you used to be. It isn't fair. People change. You make a mistake and there is always that person who things that they can tell your dirty little secret to everyone. It's dumb. Its your secret. You should get to share it. I hate it when they don't know you. They just know what you did or what they saw. One side of the story. But they don't even care to try to figure out who you really are or what happened after the whole thing. They don't feel your shame or your guilt. They label you and tell everyone else. One mistake can never go away because everyone remembers, even when you've long forgotten it. People are hypocrites. They say anybody can change. And yes they can. But no one ever forgets who you used to be. The only way to truly move on is to move and cut all your ties to everyone who knows. But most of the time that never happens.